Jan 21, 2024
FAQ about Dildo and Anal Play
by DLS Team

1. What’s the best type of lubricant for dildos?
Ah, the slippery business of lubes! Choosing the right one is like picking the perfect wine for a fancy dinner – it depends on the material of your dildo. But fear not, if you’re feeling a bit lost, just go for the ever-versatile water-based lube. We’ve already spilled the beans on some fantastic recommendations above, so make sure to check those out before your slippery escapades!
2. I’m a virgin. Will I get devirginized by using a dildo?
Oh, the age-old question of virginity! It’s like trying to define the meaning of life. Here’s the deal – virginity is a social construct, a bit like Santa Claus for grown-ups. Whether you consider yourself “devirginized” by using a dildo is entirely up to you and your personal definition. But let’s drop a truth bomb – you don’t lose anything by embracing your pleasure, so let go of those societal hang-ups and enjoy your sexploration without any fear or shame!
3. Is there a difference between a dildo for vaginal play and a dildo for anal play?
Dildos for vaginas and booties might look like twins, but they’ve got their differences. It’s like comparing apples and oranges, only in this case, one might be a tad smaller. Anal dildos usually come with a flared base, giving you a safety net for your backdoor adventures. Size matters, my friend, but it’s not the only thing that separates these playmates.
4. I feel discomfort or pain while inserting the dildo. What should I do?
Ouch! If your intimate rendezvous is feeling a bit too much like a wrestling match, fear not. Load up on lube, indulge in some tantalizing foreplay, and take it slow. If the discomfort persists, consider a check-up – there might be more to this pain than meets the eye. Your pleasure is our priority, darling!
5. Is it necessary to slip a condom on a dildo?
Condoms, the unsung heroes of the sex toy world! If you’re sharing your dildo between the front and back entrances or passing it like a baton with your partner, slip on a condom for the sake of hygiene. However, if your dildo is destined for solo missions in the VIP (Vagina In Pleasure) zone, you can skip the condom – just ensure it’s sparkling clean before and after its grand performance.
6. Can I use a dildo with a partner?
Absolutely! Bring out the party hats and confetti because using dildos with your partner can turn the bedroom into a carnival of pleasure. Communication is key here, my friend. Reassure your partner that it’s all about enhancing your shared pleasure, not a critique of anyone’s prowess. Some dildos even come with a “couples-friendly” stamp, so why not explore the toy store together?
7. Can I create my own dildo with household items?
If the anticipation of your ordered dildo is driving you mad, why not dive into the DIY realm? But proceed with caution! Check if your household items can moonlight as pleasure tools without causing unwanted side effects. And, of course, wrap them up in a condom for that DIY protection. Toothbrush handles, mascara bottles, cucumbers – it’s like a shopping list for an unconventional spa day!
8. I don’t like how it feels. What should I do?
Not feeling the vibes? Relax, take a breath, and remember – it’s all about finding what floats your boat. Different strokes for different folks, and the same goes for dildos. If a certain technique feels about as exciting as watching paint dry, switch it up! And if your partner isn’t on the same wavelength, no worries. Let them discover the pleasures of the dildo on their terms while you explore other delightful toys.