Jan 20, 2024
Women's Vibrators: Types, Techniques, Tips
by DLS Team
So, you’ve decided to embark on a journey of self-discovery and pleasure – the vibrant world of vibrators awaits! Whether you’re a newbie seeking the perfect starter buzz or a seasoned pro looking to amp up your pleasure game, we’ve got the lowdown on how to use different types of vibrators with a touch of playful flair.
What is a Vibrator?
At DLS, we’ve been buzzing with excitement (pun intended) as we’ve handled countless vibrators over the years. Now, it’s time to share our secrets on these pleasure-packed devices that can take your intimate moments to new heights. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride through the world of G-spot vibes, love eggs, and more!
What is all the hype about Women Vibrator?
So, what exactly is a vibrator? It’s not just a buzzing contraption – it’s a symphony of pleasure in a handheld package! Picture this: a handle or base, a motor, and a vibrating “head” or “tip” that dances with delight on your most sensitive areas. We’re talking about the clitoris, glans penis, and prostate – the VIP zones of pleasure.
Powered by disposable batteries, rechargeable batteries, or plugged directly into an outlet, vibrators offer a range of vibration modes and intensities. It’s like having a customizable pleasure playlist at your fingertips! From subtle hums to earth-shattering vibrations, there’s a setting for every mood.
Why It Feels Good Using a Vibrator?
Now, the burning question – why do vibrations feel so darn good on our intimate bits? It’s all about those erogenous zones, rich in nerve endings. Vibrators are like the maestros of pleasure, delivering thrilling vibrations that heighten arousal and trigger waves of ecstasy. The increased blood flow? That’s like turning up the volume on your pleasure soundtrack, making every touch more electrifying.
And let’s not forget the science – the increased circulation and sensitivity in erogenous zones can lead to a cascade of orgasms. Yes, you read that right – multiple ‘Os’ are on the menu, and vibrators are here to make it a reality!
Tips and Tricks for Using all Kind of Vibrator
Now that you’re armed with the basics, let’s sprinkle some extra joy on your pleasure journey. Experiment with different vibration modes, try out new positions, involve your partner if you’re feeling adventurous, and, most importantly, embrace the journey of self-discovery.
Remember, the world of vibrators is your playground, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. So, go ahead, explore, and let the good vibes roll!
1. How to Use a Classic Vibrator
First things first, let’s talk about the OGs in the world of vibrators – the classic ones. These straight and sleek bad boys know how to pack a punch. Whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned pro, these timeless toys are a must-have in your pleasure arsenal.
Basic Instructions:
Get Comfy: Find a cozy spot where you can easily access your vulva and vagina. Comfort is key!
Position the Vibrator: Gently press the vibrator’s tip on the clitoral hood or ease it into the vagina.
Power On: Turn on those vibrations and switch to your preferred mode.
Move and Groove: For enhanced sensations, move the vibrator back and forth, much like you would with a dildo.
Other Ways to Play:
Lit the Clit: Press the tip against the clitoral hood and indulge in an up-and-down motion.
Thrust the Vibe: Experiment with gentle insertions and rhythmic movements for a variety of sensations.
G Vibe: Target the upper vaginal wall for that elusive G-spot. A little pressure and a swirling motion can work wonders.
Best Positions:
Since you’ll be the maestro of your pleasure symphony, opt for positions where you can comfortably reach your intimate zones – lying on your back, on your side, or maybe even some pillow humping action.
Bonus Tip:
Turn up the heat by exploring erogenous zones beyond the obvious. Nipples, inner thighs, neck, and buttocks – let the pleasure waves ripple through every inch of your body.
2. How to Use an Egg Vibrator
Enter the adorable world of egg vibrators – compact, cute, and perfect for hands-free orgasms. These little wonders, shaped like eggs or teardrops, might be small in size but pack a mighty punch.
Basic Instructions:
Lubrication Love: Apply water-based lube and gently insert the egg vibrator about 2-3 inches deep.
Hangin’ Around: Keep the retrieval string hanging outside for easy removal.
Power Play: Turn on the vibrations using either the remote control or the device itself.
Other Ways to Play:
Clit Rub: Hold the egg and indulge in up-and-down, side-to-side, or swirling motions for targeted clitoral pleasure.
Egg Edging: Experience the thrill by alternating between intense and lower vibration modes right on the edge of climax.
Best Positions:
Thanks to remote controls, you’ve got the freedom to explore various positions – lying on your back, doggy style, sitting on the sofa – let your imagination run wild.
Bonus Tip:
For a daring adventure, wear a wireless egg vibrator in public. Let your partner control the remote during a date for a thrilling experience.
3. How to Use a Realistic Vibrator or Vibrating Dildo
While some may prefer the sleek design of traditional vibrators, others swear by the realistic ones – complete with veins, a slightly bent shaft, and maybe even some famous namesakes. If realism is your game, these vibrating dildos are your players.
Basic Instructions:
Get Comfortable: Find a cozy spot and apply water-based lubricant to the shaft.
Insert with Care: Gently insert the vibrator into the vagina, targeting the G-spot if it’s curved.
Activate the Vibrations: Start low and gradually increase the intensity to your liking.
Move and Groove: Experiment with back-and-forth or circular motions for enhanced G-spot stimulation.
Other Ways to Play:
Clit Rub: Warm up by applying lubricant at the tip and gently rubbing it up and down your clitoris.
Short Strokes: Gradually increase the pace with partial insertions for a teasing experience.
Inch by Inch: Gradually increase the depth with back-and-forth motions to prepare for full penetration.
Best Positions:
Whether lying on your back or side or experimenting with a suction or mount base for hands-free action, find the position that suits your vibe.
Bonus Tip:
Size matters, especially when it comes to realistic vibrators. Don’t skimp on the lube for smoother and painless insertion – your pleasure depends on it.
4. How to Use a G-Spot Vibrator
Let’s talk about the G-spot vibrator – the mystical, magical wand designed to unlock the secrets of the elusive G-spot. You know it’s serious business when the vibrator itself has a curve that shouts, “I’m coming for that G-spot!” Here’s your guide on how to make the most of this pleasure-packed device.
Basic Instructions:
Find Your Comfort Zone: Get into a position that feels just right, whether it’s lying back or adopting a more adventurous stance.
Lube it Up: Apply a water-based lubricant to the G-spot vibrator to ensure smooth sailing.
Navigate the Curve: Gently insert the vibrator into your vagina with the curved tip pointing upwards. The G-spot, located about 2-3 inches from the anterior vaginal wall, is your target.
Power Up: Turn on those vibrations, starting with the lower settings. Remember, we’re building up to a crescendo here.
Rock ‘n’ Roll: Move the vibrator back and forth or in a circular motion to intensify the stimulation on your sensitive G-spot.
Other Ways to Play:
Steady & Sweet: Contrary to popular belief, sometimes less is more. Let the G-spot vibrator rest against the G-spot without much movement. The design is crafted to hit the spot without extra effort.
Lit the Clit: Who says it’s all about the G-spot? The curved tip can be just as enticing when pressed against the clitoris, delivering a double whammy of pleasure.
Best Positions:
Lying on your back is the golden standard for G-spot vibrator exploration. This position gives you the optimal angle to easily access and stimulate your vagina.
Bonus Tip:
Ever heard of the A-Spot? It’s a hidden gem located near the cervix. The G-spot vibrator, with its length, can be a versatile player. Experiment with gentle thrusting to unlock new dimensions of pleasure.
5. How to Use an Anal Vibrator
Ah, the world of anal play – a realm often uncharted but bursting with potential pleasure. Enter the anal vibrator, designed specifically for this intimate exploration. Here’s your roadmap to navigating the backdoor delight.
Basic Instructions:
Relaxation is Key: Take a moment to ease into the experience. Relax your body through massages or a sensual warm-up.
Lube it Right: Use a generous amount of water-based lubricant on the anal vibrator. The anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so this step is crucial.
Gentle Insertion: Slowly and gently push the anal vibrator into your anus. The segmented design ensures a comfortable and gradual entry.
Vibration Unleashed: Turn on the vibrator and let the waves of pleasure stimulate your backside.
Movement Matters: Depending on the vibrator’s design, explore gentle back-and-forth movements or experiment with subtle thrusting. It’s all about finding what feels right.
Enhance the Experience: Combine the anal vibrator with other activities like fingering or a handjob to elevate the pleasure.
Other Ways to Play:
Perineum Tease: Use the vibrator’s tip to sensually tease the perineum, the area between the anus and vagina. It’s a delightful warm-up for deeper exploration.
Butt & Forth: For longer anal vibrators, experiment with a rhythmic in-and-out motion, focusing on the sensitive nerve endings around the anal opening.
Best Positions:
Whether solo or with a partner, lying on your side or stomach provides easy access to the anus. Alternatively, wear the vibrator anally and lie on your back for simultaneous clitoral and anal stimulation.
Bonus Tip:
Lubrication is non-negotiable in the world of anal play. Opt for a quality water-based lube to ensure a smooth and pleasurable experience without compromising the toy or your delicate areas.
6. How to Use a Prostate Vibrator
Gentlemen, it’s time to explore the undiscovered territory – the prostate. The prostate vibrator is your key to unlocking pleasure in the uncharted waters of male anatomy. Let’s dive in.
Basic Instructions:
Locate the Goldmine: Get familiar with your prostate by locating it with a lubed-up finger. It’s a small, walnut-sized gland between the bladder and penis.
Prepare the Massager: Apply water-based lubricant to the vibrating end of the prostate massager. Gently insert it into your anus, focusing on the prostate.
Vibration Activation: Turn on the vibrations and make adjustments to suit your preferences. Get ready for a sensation like never before.
Best Positions:
Given the versatile nature of prostate vibrators, experiment with various positions – squatting, lying down, or even standing up. The goal is to find what feels right for you.
Bonus Tip:
Elevate your pleasure game with edging. By controlling your orgasmic release, you’ll experience more intense climaxes. Stop the vibrations when you’re on the edge, then start again for a blissful journey.
7. How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator
The rabbit vibrator, with its dual-action design, is a powerhouse for pleasure, simultaneously targeting the G-spot and clitoris. Here’s your guide on how to make the most of this iconic pleasure device.
Basic Instructions:
Prep the Playground: Ensure you’re in a comfortable position, whether lying down or experimenting with something more adventurous.
Lubrication is Key: Apply a water-based lubricant to both the shaft for G-spot penetration and the clitoral stimulator for smooth, sensual pleasure.
Insert & Nestle: Gently insert the shaft into your vagina with the rabbit ears resting against your clitoris. Find the depth and angle that feels just right.
Power Up the Dual Action: Turn on both the shaft and clitoral stimulator. Most rabbit vibrators offer various vibration patterns, so explore to discover your favorite.
Rock & Roll: Experiment with rocking or thrusting movements to maximize pleasure on both fronts.
Other Ways to Play:
Clitoral Focus: If you’re not in the mood for internal stimulation, you can use the rabbit vibrator solely for clitoral pleasure. It’s like having two toys in one.
G-Spot Tease: Alternatively, focus on the G-spot stimulation by turning off the clitoral vibrator. The curved shaft is designed to target that elusive erogenous zone.
Best Positions:
Experimenting with different positions can enhance your rabbit vibrator experience. Trying it on your back, doggy style, or even with your legs up against a wall can provide varied sensations.
Bonus Tip:
Take your time getting to know your rabbit vibrator. Understanding the settings, angles, and your body’s responses will lead to a more customized and satisfying experience.
8. How to Use a Wand Vibrator
The wand vibrator, renowned for its strong and rumbly vibrations, is a versatile pleasure tool that can be used for both solo and partner play. Here’s your guide to mastering the art of wand vibrations.
Basic Instructions:
Choose Your Attachment: Many wand vibrators come with interchangeable heads or attachments. Select the one that suits your mood – whether it’s a broad head for general pleasure or a pinpoint attachment for targeted sensations.
Plug In or Charge Up: Depending on the type of wand vibrator, ensure it’s powered up and ready to go. Some are corded, while others are rechargeable.
Lube it Right: Apply a water-based lubricant to enhance the smooth glide of the wand vibrator over your body.
Exploration Time: Start by using the wand vibrator on areas like the thighs, breasts, or any erogenous zone to build arousal.
Direct Stimulation: Gradually move the wand to more intimate areas, like the clitoris or penis, adjusting the intensity to your liking.
Other Ways to Play:
Partner Play: Wand vibrators aren’t just for solo adventures. Explore the pleasure of incorporating it into partnered activities, enhancing foreplay or using it during intercourse.
Full-Body Experience: Let the powerful vibrations resonate throughout your body. Glide the wand over your skin, exploring different sensations from head to toe.
Best Positions:
The versatility of the wand vibrator makes it suitable for various positions. Experiment with sitting, lying down, or even standing – the choice is yours.
Bonus Tip:
If you find the wand vibrator too intense, try using it over your underwear or a thin fabric to soften the sensations. Remember, it’s all about finding what feels perfect for you.
9. How to Use a Couples’ Vibrator
Couples’ vibrators are designed to bring pleasure to both partners simultaneously, adding a new dimension to intimacy. Here’s how to make the most of this shared pleasure experience.
Basic Instructions:
Communication is Key: Before diving in, have an open and honest conversation with your partner about desires, boundaries, and expectations.
Place & Play: Position the couples’ vibrator so that it stimulates both the clitoris and penis during intercourse. Most models are designed to be worn by the female partner with a vibrating arm for clitoral stimulation and a portion that rests inside for G-spot pleasure.
Lube it Up: Apply a water-based lubricant to enhance comfort and ensure smooth movements.
Sync Up: Turn on the vibrator and adjust the settings to a level that satisfies both partners. Many couple vibrators come with remote controls for convenience.
Enjoy the Ride: Engage in penetrative sex with the couples’ vibrator enhancing sensations for both partners.
Other Ways to Play:
Solo Play: While couples’ vibrators are designed for joint pleasure, they can also be used for solo play. Explore different settings and techniques to find what works best for you.
Foreplay Fun: Incorporate the couples’ vibrator into your foreplay routine. Use it to tease and build anticipation before moving to more intimate activities.
Best Positions:
The beauty of couples’ vibrators is their versatility. Experiment with various positions – missionary, doggy style, or even side-by-side – to find what brings the most pleasure to both partners.
Bonus Tip:
Communication doesn’t end after the initial conversation. Continuously check in with your partner, adjusting settings or positions as needed for an optimal shared experience.
10. How to Use a Prostate Massager
Prostate massagers are designed to stimulate the prostate gland, a highly sensitive and often overlooked erogenous zone in men. Here’s your guide to exploring the pleasures of prostate massage.
Basic Instructions:
Prepare Yourself: Start with proper hygiene. Trim your nails, and consider a bowel movement to ensure comfort during the massage.
Lubrication is a Must: Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to both the massager and the anal area. This is crucial for a comfortable and pleasurable experience.
Find a Comfortable Position: Lie on your back with your knees bent, or try a comfortable, supported doggy style position. Relaxation is key for successful prostate stimulation.
Insertion: Slowly and gently insert the prostate massager into the anus. Most prostate massagers have a curved design to easily target the prostate.
Explore the Settings: If your massager comes with vibration or other settings, experiment with them to find the intensity that suits you.
Other Ways to Play:
Combine with Masturbation: Prostate massage pairs well with masturbation. Stimulating the prostate while pleasuring yourself can lead to intense and prolonged orgasms.
Partner Play: If you’re comfortable, you can explore prostate massage with a partner. Clear communication is essential to ensure a positive experience.
Best Positions:
Experiment with different positions to find what feels best for you. Whether it’s on your back, side, or with your chest on the bed, discovering your preferred position is part of the journey.
Bonus Tip:
Patience is key. The prostate may take some time to respond to stimulation, so allow yourself to relax and enjoy the experience.
11. How to Use a Remote-Controlled Vibrator
Remote-controlled vibrators add an exciting element to solo or partnered play, allowing someone else to take the reins of your pleasure. Here’s your guide to enjoying the thrill of distance with a remote-controlled vibrator.
Basic Instructions:
Charge Up: Ensure the vibrator is fully charged before use. A dead battery can interrupt the fun.
Sync with the Remote: Follow the manufacturer’s instructions to pair the vibrator with its remote control. This might involve pressing specific buttons or using a smartphone app.
Position and Play: Place the vibrator in the desired location – whether it’s against your clitoris, inside your underwear, or any other erogenous zone.
Hand Over Control: If you’re playing with a partner, hand them the remote. Alternatively, take control of the remote yourself for solo adventures.
Experiment with Settings: Many remote-controlled vibrators come with various vibration patterns and intensities. Explore these options to find what excites you the most.
Other Ways to Play:
Public Play: For the adventurous, remote-controlled vibrators can be worn in public, adding an extra layer of excitement. Just be mindful of your surroundings and noise levels.
Long-Distance Fun: If your partner is miles away, some remote-controlled vibrators can be operated over the internet. Explore this option for a truly long-distance intimate connection.
Best Positions:
The versatility of remote-controlled vibrators means they can be used in various positions – sitting, standing, lying down, or even during intercourse for added stimulation.
Bonus Tip:
Communication is crucial, especially when playing with a partner. Establish a system of signals or use verbal cues to ensure you’re both on the same page.
12. How to Use a Kegel Ball or Ben Wa Ball
Kegel balls, also known as Ben Wa balls, serve a dual purpose – they help strengthen pelvic floor muscles and provide pleasure. Here’s your guide to incorporating these discreet balls into your routine.
Basic Instructions:
Clean and Lubricate: Before inserting the balls, clean them thoroughly with mild soap and water. Apply a water-based lubricant to ensure easy and comfortable insertion.
Find a Comfortable Position: You can insert Kegel balls while standing, sitting, or lying down. Relax your body and find a position that feels natural.
Insertion: Gently insert the first ball into your vagina. If the set comes with two balls, insert the second one, leaving a small tail or retrieval string outside for easy removal.
Engage Your Muscles: Once the balls are inside, engage your pelvic floor muscles by performing Kegel exercises. Squeeze and release the muscles around the balls.
Start Slow: If you’re new to Kegel exercises, start with short sessions and gradually increase the time as your muscles strengthen.
Other Ways to Play:
Wear Them Anywhere: Kegel balls can be worn discreetly throughout the day, allowing you to engage in strengthening exercises without anyone knowing.
Solo or Partnered Play: Some sets come with vibrating or weighted balls for added pleasure. Experiment with different sensations during solo or partnered play.
Best Positions:
While you can use Kegel balls in various positions, starting in a relaxed position is recommended, as it allows you to focus on engaging your pelvic floor muscles without distraction.
Bonus Tip:
Consistency is key when it comes to Kegel exercises. Incorporate them into your routine regularly for both the health and pleasure benefits.
13. How to Use a Cock Ring
Cock rings, also known as penis rings, are designed to enhance sexual pleasure and performance. Here’s your guide to using a cock ring for an elevated and satisfying experience.
Basic Instructions:
Choose the Right Size: Cock rings come in various sizes, so selecting the right one is crucial. It should be snug but not too tight to ensure comfort and safety.
Apply Lubricant: Before putting on the cock ring, apply a water-based lubricant to the penis. This helps with easier placement and added comfort.
Place at the Base: Slide the cock ring to the base of the erect penis. It can be positioned behind the testicles as well for additional stimulation.
Enjoy the Benefits: A properly placed cock ring can help maintain a firmer and longer-lasting erection by restricting blood flow out of the penis.
Limit Usage Time: It’s important not to wear a cock ring for an extended period. Generally, 20-30 minutes is recommended to avoid any potential issues.
Other Ways to Play:
Vibrating Cock Rings: Some cock rings come with built-in vibrators for added pleasure for both partners during intercourse.
Experiment with Positions: Try different sexual positions to explore how the cock ring enhances sensations for both partners.
Best Positions:
While using a cock ring, positions that allow for deep penetration and clitoral stimulation, such as missionary or doggy style, can be particularly enjoyable.
Bonus Tip:
Communication is key. Check in with your partner about comfort and pleasure levels while using a cock ring.
14. How to Use Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps are popular for adding an extra layer of sensation to sexual play. Here’s your guide to using nipple clamps for intensified pleasure.
Basic Instructions:
Choose the Right Type: Nipple clamps come in various styles, from adjustable to non-adjustable, and with or without additional features like chains. Choose a type that suits your preferences.
Prepare Your Nipples: Ensure your nipples are erect before applying the clamps. You can achieve this through manual stimulation or by exposure to cool air.
Adjust the Tension: If using adjustable clamps, start with a gentle tension and gradually increase it until you reach a level that provides the desired sensation without causing discomfort.
Apply to Nipples: Gently place the clamps on each nipple, making sure they’re secure but not overly tight. You should feel a pleasurable pinch without significant pain.
Experiment with Movement: Explore the sensations by gently tugging on the chain (if your clamps have one) or by incorporating different movements during sexual play.
Other Ways to Play:
Temperature Play: Experiment with temperature by warming or cooling the clamps before application for added sensory stimulation.
Combine with Other Activities: Nipple clamps can be used during various sexual activities, from solo play to partner exploration.
Best Positions:
Positions that allow easy access to the nipples, such as missionary or any position where the breasts are exposed, work well when using nipple clamps.
Bonus Tip:
Check in with your partner regularly and establish a safe word or gesture to communicate if the sensation becomes too intense.
15. How to Use a Feather Tickler
Feather ticklers are a playful and sensual addition to the bedroom, perfect for teasing and tantalizing your partner’s senses. Here’s your guide to using a feather tickler for light and delightful pleasure.
Basic Instructions:
Set the Mood: Create a relaxed and intimate atmosphere. Dim the lights, play soft music, and ensure a comfortable space for your playful activities.
Explore Sensation: Begin by lightly running the feather tickler over your partner’s body. Focus on areas like the neck, chest, and thighs for a teasing and tingling sensation.
Feather Teasing Techniques: Use different techniques, such as gentle strokes, circles, or lightly dragging the feathers, to vary the sensations and keep things interesting.
Incorporate into Foreplay: Feather ticklers are excellent for incorporating into foreplay. Use them to trace the contours of your partner’s body, building anticipation.
Experiment with Temperature: Enhance the experience by pairing the feather tickler with temperature play. Try warming or cooling the feathers for added sensory delight.
Other Ways to Play:
Blindfolded Fun: Combine the feather tickler with a blindfold for heightened sensations. Removing the sense of sight can amplify the impact of each delicate touch.
Couple’s Massage: Use the feather tickler as part of a sensual massage, alternating between the gentle feathers and your hands.
Best Positions:
Feather ticklers work well in various positions, especially those that allow easy access to different parts of the body. Experiment with positions that enhance your partner’s pleasure.
Bonus Tip:
Communication is crucial. Pay attention to your partner’s reactions and ask for feedback to ensure the experience is enjoyable for both of you.
Conclusion
As you embark on this sensational journey with your vibrator, keep these tips close to your heart. Go slow, be patient, and let your desires dictate the pace. Hygiene is key – give your trusty companion a good scrub before and after each rendezvous.
Think of your vibrator as your confidant, your BFF in the world of intimate pleasure. Take the time to bond, explore the settings, and let curiosity be your guide. Discover what brings you joy, indulge in the pleasure, and relish the adventure that your vibrating companion offers. Enjoy the ride, fellow pleasure explorer!